Terrible Twos at 9 months?

I would love to say that Miley is the perfect baby, that she's never fussy, and a perfect angel in public, but that's just not the truth. She has a temper and she knows what she wants when she wants it. She only gives Mommy and Daddy x amount of time to figure it out before she loses it. We're used to this and we love her just the same, it would be nice if we could go out to eat without a melt down but whatever. Neither one of us are looking forward to the terrible twos. Last night Miley had a FIT! She was playing on the floor quietly while Stephen and I ate dinner. She was all the way over on the other side of the room and started whining/crying because she wanted to be picked up. The girl just sat there screaming and having a fit refusing to crawl over to us, no she wanted us to come to her. After about 5 minutes of the fit, she finally crawled over to us, still screaming and looking all pitiful. I picked her up and she instantly stopped crying. Things like this happen every night, she wants you to do something and won't stopped screaming until you do it. Two nights ago I put her in her playpen so I could finish cleaning the kitchen and she had a fit. When I finished I pulled her out and tried to hand her to Stephen. She instantly turned away from him and shot me a dirty look. I'm the one who put her in the playpen but she was angry with him. We've got a wild one on our hands!